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August 09, 2010 - 03:53 AM
Keith MacKenzie from California

Hang in there man. I have twins-boy and girl who are 21. He will come to see you as long as you keep her from erasing your memory. Try as hard as you can to stay in contact, even outside of visitation! You can do it. The rewards will come when he old enough to start to understand what sacrifices you have made. You can't keep a good man down.

June 02, 2010 - 02:20 AM
Melinda Mathis from Minnesota

Hey there. I just read your story on accident. I did a random google search on "I LOVE MY SON" and this came up. I am so sorry that this woman kept YOUR child away from you. May God bless you and your family, And you baby Caleb. I am a mother of a 2 year old and I would not know how to live with myself if one. I was not with the father and two. even if I didn't love the father, keep his son from him. This was an intentional act abusing the law. I will pray for you until I hear about you finally seeing your son. I pray that you do. because they are the best things in the world.. and it sounds as if you deserve more than anyone to see your child! =] God Bless -Melinda and Family

May 03, 2010 - 09:22 PM
David Carmon from Michigan

My Story:
I was granted joint custody of my 3 biological children in 2007 and have been paying $400/mo in child support ever since. Today(may 3, 2010) I filed an emergency motion for temporary/permanent custody in Oakland County Circuit Court to try and protect my children from domestic violence. I believe my children to be in danger because of their mothers behavior and actions.

However, the judge was unable to help me because their mother is married to another man whom she has been unable to find in years to divorce. The childrens mother and myself conceived the children out of wedlock only because she could not find her spouse for a divorce. She told me the only reason she married him was to keep him from being deported as he was an illegal immigrant. This man tried to divorce her in 2007, but did not follow through. In the divorce papers, the man stated he was not the father of my 3 children. He does not want to have anything to do with them. I do. I want everything to do with them. They are my life.

The children are mine biologically. I have been in each of their lives since the day they were born from cutting the umbilical cord, to enrolling them in school and being the best father I can possibly be. I have taken an active role starting in 2002 when my son was born.

I need help in changing this Paternity Act so that I can protect my children and so that I can be present in their lives. My son begs me to take him away from the violence, but there is nothing I can do. I have to look in his eyes and see the pain this is causing him.

Please help me protect my babies. What I need is for a circuit court, DHS, CPS and FOC to be able enforce a paternity test for each of my children. I want to pay child support. I want to provide health insurance. I want to be in their lives.

The judge told me she would have awarded me custody of my 3 children. However, by law she couldn't. She cannot help me without paternity being established.

Please help me change the Paternity Act so that if a mother admits the biological father is truly the real father that a paternity test be allowed. And if that father is proven by DNA to be the biological father that a court order for custody, child support and parenting time be entered.

My children are being hurt because of this Paternity Act. Again, please help me in changing this Paternity Act.

March 07, 2010 - 06:58 PM
joe o driscoll from

Hey mate.

i love my son with all my soul.i really hope you get to be with caleb soon.

being without your son is like ripping your heart out.
if you ever need to chat mate, im here,

all the best.
joe

January 06, 2010 - 12:49 AM
cubfanmom from IL

Ages since I have posted here. We met ages ago at Baby Center.

I'm taking a second look at the wording here...
”—the Michigan Supreme Court has interpreted this language to require a court determination that the child is not the issue of the marriage prior to the putative father filing his complaint seeking paternity.

How can this be possible? This would mean, each and every child born within a marriage would require dna testing prior to a childs birth to ensure the child is actually a product of the marriage. Certainly the courts could not force amniocentisis (sp?) to ensure dna matches the father.

What about cases of rape, where a married couple may choose not to abort a child concevied within a marriage but was a product of rape. Would the courts then grant paternal rights to the rapist?

This law, as interpreted excludes any and all possibility of a father in similiar circumstances to yours from establishing his rights.

Have there been any updates on the changes in legislations proposed awhile back?

have never stopped thinking about this case from time to time.

October 30, 2009 - 09:10 AM
Stanley Axe from Michigan

I am in the same boat with my daughter the Mother and I use the term loosely were together while she was married and like many suckers like myself believed her when she said she loved me and was going to get a divorce yeah I thought!!!!.When she told me she was pregnant it was a dream come true well like many stories here she went back to her husband and he signed the Birth Certificate I wanted to be in my daughters life birth I was there with the husband for all the OGBYN Appointments but she didnt tell me the day she gave birth so I missed my one and only childs birth SUCKS!!!.Fast forward 9 years her and I were on great terms I help pay for her bills and house payment which she will strongly disagree I get to see my daughter everyday so the world is a peach right wrong now she is pissed and Im scared she will keep my baby from me she has used that in the past that is why I continue to kiss her ass and give her all that I can I just got a job now I,like many others,who I will call MEN want to be in there childs life walk them down the aisle at their wedding be there for their first touchdown ect ect. but are scared shi@#$ss because the courts wont help GET WHAT WE DESERVE and that is a chance to be a DADDY. MICHIGAN CHANGE THIS LAW AND GIVE US THIS CHANCE let us who want to take care of or own beable to do so no more RED TAPE. Like I like to say any guy can be a father but IT TAKES A MAN TO BE A DADDY

June 22, 2009 - 12:23 AM
Tanya from MI

I am on the other side of this story. I have been separated from my husband for a year now and my divorce was about to be final when, I became pregnant with another mans baby. Now this other man is trying to bail out because “technically” the baby is not his by law because I am still married. Now I can’t get divorced until there is a DNA test. So I am told. I do not understand why the law is making it so difficult for my unborn child to have his real father be on the birth certificate, be in the hospital room, and legally not the father. I would like someone to help me and figure out how we can change this law. And what if the mother wants the real father in the Childs life? Is the law different then? Can the real father be asked to pay child support and have a DNA test to prove the child is his? How long does this take? Or when my soon to be ex-husband takes the DNA test and proves the baby is not his... Then what? The baby won't have a father? How does this work? How can some men want to be a part of their Childs life and others not? Why is it that men like Bill Numerick Jr who want to be apart of his biological son be denied. And why is it that women have to be left with no one to care for their child once paternity is proven that the Husband is not the father? If anyone has any information can you pease help me???... Contact me at tanyagarcia@gmail.com

Also, if you have Bill N. contact information can you please send it to me????

June 01, 2009 - 04:14 PM
cheyenne summer from michagan

im a heart broken grandmother,i feel for all of you men,i have a son who had his son took away from him two weeks ago,the child has disabilites an the mother who was married to another walked out on the baby when he was 6mos old,my son took very good care of the child,he had a dna an it tested 99.96 percent,after five years of no contack of the mother she files suit for the child an now the childs living in a foster home because the mother is unfit to have the child,but even with the dna ,they say she married to another so my son has no rights,that curel,an sencetive,an it sure wasnt for the best intrest of the child,i think fathers should have rights to there child even if the woman is married to another,this child was happy ,loved,an we miss him so much,theres not a night that goes by that i dont cry my self to sleep,an to think of what my son is going through breaks my heart,an it breaks my heart to know theres alot of other men going through what we are,an yes i voice my opion ,but theres hope,dont give it up

April 08, 2009 - 12:38 PM
Rae Fruth from MI

Please see House Bill No. 5993. April 16, 2008. introduced by Mike Simpson. to amend the the Acknowledgement of Parentage Act. written to allow a man who is shown by blood or genetic testing to be the biological father of the child legal standing to contest the parenting acknowledgement. I'm not certain where this bill stands, or if it would in fact help your case, but it's worth investigating.

December 06, 2008 - 02:59 PM
Amy from Can anyone help me out

I have a son name Elijuah and hr is 10m old right now i have a prom. i have a guy that is upsetted with me and i cant get him to do a DNA testing he know he is not the father of my child he know the guy that i am with is the father of my child.. but i have a letter that he wrote the he will do DNA setting if i asked him but i dont talk to him because there is a no contact order.. he wont do the DNA testing.. I want to know if i bring up in court that i have a letter written by him stating that he will do DNA testing will it hold up in court.. now so u know he is controlling and abusive.. He has also wrote me threatening letter stating that he will do everything to make sure that me and my babys dad dont stay to gather.. he is using my son to get to me i be live that he thinks if he gets my son that i will come back, and that is what he is trying to do.. all i want is for him to leave me alone and let me my son and his father to move on.. I am engage with my sons father.. o ya this guy that is trying everything to get my son is on the birth cif. If u have any ideal if it will hold up in court or what i can do so he cant get my son please let me know thanks

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