Click here to sign the guestbook 1 June 22, 2009 - 12:23 AM Tanya from MI   I am on the other side of this story. I have been separated from my husband for a year now and my divorce was about to be final when, I became pregnant with another mans baby. Now this other man is trying to bail out because “technically” the baby is not his by law because I am still married. Now I can’t get divorced until there is a DNA test. So I am told. I do not understand why the law is making it so difficult for my unborn child to have his real father be on the birth certificate, be in the hospital room, and legally not the father. I would like someone to help me and figure out how we can change this law. And what if the mother wants the real father in the Childs life? Is the law different then? Can the real father be asked to pay child support and have a DNA test to prove the child is his? How long does this take? Or when my soon to be ex-husband takes the DNA test and proves the baby is not his... Then what? The baby won't have a father? How does this work? How can some men want to be a part of their Childs life and others not? Why is it that men like Bill Numerick Jr who want to be apart of his biological son be denied. And why is it that women have to be left with no one to care for their child once paternity is proven that the Husband is not the father? If anyone has any information can you pease help me???... Contact me at tanyagarcia@gmail.com Also, if you have Bill N. contact information can you please send it to me???? 2 June 01, 2009 - 04:14 PM cheyenne summer from michagan   im a heart broken grandmother,i feel for all of you men,i have a son who had his son took away from him two weeks ago,the child has disabilites an the mother who was married to another walked out on the baby when he was 6mos old,my son took very good care of the child,he had a dna an it tested 99.96 percent,after five years of no contack of the mother she files suit for the child an now the childs living in a foster home because the mother is unfit to have the child,but even with the dna ,they say she married to another so my son has no rights,that curel,an sencetive,an it sure wasnt for the best intrest of the child,i think fathers should have rights to there child even if the woman is married to another,this child was happy ,loved,an we miss him so much,theres not a night that goes by that i dont cry my self to sleep,an to think of what my son is going through breaks my heart,an it breaks my heart to know theres alot of other men going through what we are,an yes i voice my opion ,but theres hope,dont give it up 3 April 08, 2009 - 12:38 PM Rae Fruth from MI   Please see House Bill No. 5993. April 16, 2008. introduced by Mike Simpson. to amend the the Acknowledgement of Parentage Act. written to allow a man who is shown by blood or genetic testing to be the biological father of the child legal standing to contest the parenting acknowledgement. I'm not certain where this bill stands, or if it would in fact help your case, but it's worth investigating. 4 December 06, 2008 - 02:59 PM Amy from Can anyone help me out   I have a son name Elijuah and hr is 10m old right now i have a prom. i have a guy that is upsetted with me and i cant get him to do a DNA testing he know he is not the father of my child he know the guy that i am with is the father of my child.. but i have a letter that he wrote the he will do DNA setting if i asked him but i dont talk to him because there is a no contact order.. he wont do the DNA testing.. I want to know if i bring up in court that i have a letter written by him stating that he will do DNA testing will it hold up in court.. now so u know he is controlling and abusive.. He has also wrote me threatening letter stating that he will do everything to make sure that me and my babys dad dont stay to gather.. he is using my son to get to me i be live that he thinks if he gets my son that i will come back, and that is what he is trying to do.. all i want is for him to leave me alone and let me my son and his father to move on.. I am engage with my sons father.. o ya this guy that is trying everything to get my son is on the birth cif. If u have any ideal if it will hold up in court or what i can do so he cant get my son please let me know thanks 5 October 15, 2008 - 04:33 PM kandi from salt lake city utah   my son was married in sept of 2007 he and his new wife where going to have a baby my grandson i have only one child and i was so happy that in jan of 2008 that i was going to be a grandma the week before the wedding we had a fight and i was told that i not going to have my son my grandson in my life ever that hurts i even tryed to kill my self the day after he was born it is a pain that know one under stands it hurts to know your flesh and blood are out there you wonder and you blame your self i wrote a letter as there was no other way of contact and it helped it is oct 15th and i have seen my grandson 3 times i hope and pray that you will get to see you son some day life is to short to not let the law make some rules that help you not hurt you i am so sorry i do not know you but i pray for you god bless 6 October 03, 2008 - 02:45 AM FormerlyAMichiganie from Michigan/Virginia   I am truely sorry for what has happened to you. In no way can I relate, except for the fact that your story touched my heart and made me cry. I am a single mother of a 4yr have been since he was 2 1/2. All I wanted to do was raise my son with my ex-husband. Try the do it together thing after the divorce.But he had other plans after 8 months of barely even seeing his son he decided that he didn't want to see him anymore. And was considering terminating his rights away. When the divorce papers were made he gave me full custody just like that. He's not seen his son in a 1 1/2, and I have bit my tongue till it bleeds not blessing him out in front of my son. Because one day it will be my son's choose of what he thinks about his father. I will not lead him down that road. My point, my son still crys, still misses, and still wants his Dad even after all he's done to him. My ex-husband remarried 8 days after the divorce, and is now expecting a new baby in Nov. I wish there were more Dads out there like you. Please never give up, never quit because they are always worth it. The reason I found this site was I typed "I Love my Son." I won't forget you as long as you never forget your Son. 7 June 16, 2008 - 06:42 PM Marty from Michigan   I have a very similar situation to the man who posted just prior to me, only I have a letter written by my son's mom that says I am my son's biological father AND I know her husband is sterile, since when I first met her she was going to Grand Rapids for artificial insemination treatments. We came together as friends, fell in what I thought was love, she moved out of her husbands house and then once she became pregnant, poof, she was gone. We remained friends and still are, but her husband is now claiming my son as his, even though he openly doesn't deny that I am the biological father. There is a sense of pride on his part in knowing I have NO rights under the law as it stands today. I don't know what to do at this point, but I feel for all of the men suffering through this. I am trying to make an appointment to talk with their Pastor, based on the advice of a friend who is also a Pastor. I hope God will provide a way for my son to know his real Father. If anyone thinks I have hope, please feel free to write me and give me an idea what to do. Peace to you, Marty 8 January 09, 2008 - 11:03 AM Daniel Wharton from Michigan   I was in a relationship with a married woman who was going to leave her husband for me and then backed out. After this point we stayed friends. A month later she contacted me and said she was pregnant. She told me that it was her husband’s child and that she was sorry for all the pain she put me through. I stayed friends with her. We had talked and said that she and her husband would be tested to make sure it was infact their child when he was born. Two days after the birth she contacted me from the hospital saying that all was well. She said He was their child. She had told the nurse that she wanted to be tested because of the situation that she had been in. About four months later she started calling me and saying that the child looked like me. After two months of her calls consisting of conversations about her thinking he was my child, I asked her if it would make her feel at peace if we just went and got a DNA test. So she, the baby and I went and had a DNA test done. She asked me what we would do if he was mine. I told her if she had the testing done like she said, that he was not going to be mine. We discussed that if in some chance that he was, I thought we might try to have a relationship so I could be in my child's life as much as possible. Two weeks later the results come he is in fact my child 99.88% positive. I started seeing him on a regular basis. My whole family meets my son including my (mom, dad, step dad, brother etc) this goes on for about four months without her husband knowing that I'm seeing him. I get the feeling that the mother just wants to be in a relationship with me and she really doesn't care if I'm in my son’s life. I ask her if she wants me in his life no matter our relationship outcome. She tells me yes. The next day i tell that i talked to a lawyer about my rights and i asked if she would sign a new acknowledgment of paternity stating that i was the father. Two days later I try to call her. The phone number has been changed. I contact her at work (I work with her). She tells me not to come see her or try to contact her at all. I hired a lawyer the day that she cut off contact. I got my day in court early 2007. I felt very prepared with my DNA test, many pictures, phone records, and proof of our relationship. I asked to pay child support, visitation every other weekend, one week day a week, Father’s day and three weeks in the summer. This case was held at the Washtenaw County Court in Ann Arbor, Mi. The case took about five minuets. The Judge didn't even ask to see the DNA test, any photos or look at any proof of my relationship. The Judge did not ask me to take the stand or my brother who came with me. Long story short you have no rights in Michigan if you are the biological father and you have had a relationship with your child. WOW what a shock. I just don't feel its right for my own son a product of me to not know his own biological father not only that I can’t even begin to tell you how this has affected me. I thought this might educate people in Michigan by telling all of you that might read this what happend to me. The law in Michigan in my mind is very wrong and I will work to try to educate people and get this law changed. If you would like to help please click on Bill's link to contact Michigan Legislation. Any further questions or comments about this can be directed to my email below. Thanks for reading. Daniel Wharton dcisforme@yahoo.com 9 July 12, 2007 - 04:37 PM Jill from CT   I first heard your story several years back on a babycenter posting board. I heard that tonight Paul Zahn is doing a story on CNN regarding the terrible paternity laws in this country and it made me think of your case. Good luck, please do not give up hope that you will be reunited with your little boy. 10 July 02, 2007 - 01:59 AM Philip Brown from CA   Pal, i'm a father of a 4 month old child and i get to see him every day. My heart breaks for you mate. Don't give up, thats what the f******* want. Females have despicable rights in Family Court. Its a disgrace to this nation, politicians must find a balance, men must find the energy to unite and lobby. God Bless you, i have added your site to my favourites and i will keep checking back. I have a slogan framed above my computer that says "A man is never beaten when he loses a man is only beaten when he gives up" dont you give up mate, for you and every other dad in the country [Top] Page # 1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  ... of 20 [Bottom]

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